Wednesday 8 June 2016

Keeping it in the family

 
I often refer to my pageant friends as my “sash sisters”, we are part of a global pageant family and although we don’t share the same blood, we share the same passion for competing and making a difference in our lives and others. All that changed when my little niece followed in my footsteps to compete in a local pageant, where she walked away with the crown and like the proud pageant auntie I had inspired my little niece to take the big leap into a world of sparkles and worldwide friends. I interviewed a few pageant competitors who had kept the pageantry in the family, from mothers and daughters, to sons and grandparents! Here are their stories:
Keziah and Rachel Excell
For the regulars on the pageant scene, you cannot miss Rachel and Kez when they walk into a pageant for rehearsal! They instantly brighten up the room, their laughs are infectious and they genuinely enjoy competing together!  Keziah was the first to compete out of the mother/daughter duo to build up her confidence after being bullied and wanting to be a model. After her first pageant she felt very nervous and underprepared, and eventually asked her mother if she could compete with her and the rest is history!
 
“After a few kez still had lots of nerves and she asked if I would do the next with her, which I did and she was so much more relaxed and it was such fun and it brought us closer together. If I had to pick one pageant memory that stood out amongst the rest it had to be a teenie one we did. I wasn't entered but somehow I got roped into doing it. Kez also brought extra dresses. But then outfit of choice came along and all I had was the outfit I came in which was a white shorts playsuit, I used that along with keziahs black boots and a white fluffy head piece which looked strange but hey it’s all about the fun, I hadn't chosen a song for me to walk to, I left it to the directors to do and I'm known for being a joker so I get up to "I like big Butts" So me being me decide it's a good idea to spend the 90 seconds twerking around the stage, it went down so well that one of the judges and the compère jumped on the stage and joined me, Keziahs face was a picture of both horrified and omg that's my mum I love her look”.
 
Rachel also entered her disabled son to enter pageants, “it was one of the most important days of my life, my son who is now almost 20 has never once stepped on a stage, he has been at special needs school almost all his life and still goes there and he refused to do any plays as he couldn't cope with everyone watching him, so for him to even enter the building was amazing in itself but even though he only lasted about 30 seconds he did it”. They have raised so much money and met so many different people on the pageant journey, and they won’t be stopping anytime soon! This pageant duo will be rocking the Miss Galaxy finals next year, with Rachel entering the Ms and Keziah competing again for Scotland.
 

 
Laura and Erin White
Erin followed in her mother’s footsteps after recently seeing an article about a mother and daughter competing, and Laura telling her about her glitzy pageant past. Laura, a past finalist for Miss United Kingdom back in 1989 as well as Mrs England 1992, was thrilled that Erin would be passed down the sparkling tiara and carry on the pageant tradition in the family. “Erin’s dad who was my boyfriend back when we married in 1992 when I was competing, so he gets to go through it all again with his daughter this time! It’s very different and harder work than when I was competing. There was no involvement in fundraising or making appearances before a contest, which were just called beauty Contests then! We all had permed frizzy hair, our bathing suits were hitched up far too high and we all wore too much blue eyeliner, spray tans hadn’t been invented then!”
Erin entered pageants for confidence which was also why Laura competed in the 80’s, “I’ve seen Erin grow from a pretty but gawky teen into a beautiful young woman who has self-confidence and a belief in doing the right thing. I think it’s better now pageant wise because the girls are much more involved with the organization and work really hard before the pageant. It teaches the girls that hard work, commitment and dedication which are essential life skills for their future”.  Erin has competed in both Miss Junior Teen GB and Miss teen Galaxy Wales, coming second runner up in the 2016 competition as well as grabbing the Miss Congeniality title which to celebrate Erin bough the DVD and it now their favorite film (it really is the best pageant DVD out there!). “Last year Erin raised nearly £1000 for Together for Short Lives and is hoping to top that this year, she’s a finalist again in Miss Junior Great Britain again and think’s it’s important to remain loyal to one pageant organizer so she can give 100 per cent”. Laura is everything a pageant mum should be, helping her fundraise, taking her to various events and sharing the pageant journey which has made their bond closer as mother and daughter. Good luck for the finals Erin!

 
Laura and Katie Simpson
Up north in Scotland we have the dynamic due of Laura and Katie, who entered pageants first of all as a progression from dancing as Katie is a freestyle dancer who regularly competes in dance competitions. “I’ve always been behind the scenes as Katie has done 5 pageants, eventually I got roped into it but I have to say it was a lot of fun! Winning the sexiest contestant was like what! I had a chuckle! I won my first pageant of Ms Inverness and Katie came runner up in the junior division, she also places second in Little Miss British Empire in 2015.  Doing this experience has given us a strong relationship, we do so much together and are always on the road with her dance competitions so this is something we can do together!”. Katie added, “I was really excited for my mum, I knew she would go out and smash it. Mama is my biggest supporter in everything I do and I love her to bits”.  From competing in pageants Katie has signed up to two modeling agencies, as well as having her pageant mama showing everyone where she got her sass from!
 

 Natasha and Linda Wilson
It wasn’t until Natasha entered her first pageant that she found out that her grandma was a former Miss England herself! Lyn won the title back in 1978 back when the swimwear was the crowning attire. Natasha entered a Miss England heat in Devon and came top 12, as well as competing in Miss Earth England which she hopes to do again this year! “My best pageant moment was at miss earth England, and learning more things about being able to spread my eco message and to inspire other girls who were frightened when they were at the finals. My nan is a great supporter and thinks it’s great that even though I am in the army I can be myself and compete”.
 
There are many more Mother/Daughter combos, like Kristy and Daisy Fletcher who have both graced the Galaxy International stages and Kristy recently winning the Mrs World UK title (congrats) as well as the dynamic duo of Misha and Kasha Grimes who have flown to South Africa and Vegas to compete Internationally. A pageant journey shared is a pageant journey worth completing! Stay sparkling!
 
Hannah Golding
Catwalk Perfect Wiltshire

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